Couple Coaching
Couple coaching for couple problems…
Automaticity, distance, unmet needs, escalating pet peeves
Expectations, misunderstandings
We don’t listen/talk like we did
My partner doesn’t understand me - we used to be so close
Missing your partner’s bids for love and connection?
Different ways of expressing or wanting to receive love?
How I can help your relationship
I’m an advocate for your relationship, that space of ‘us’ greater than the sum of the two of you. I support you both:
To understand how each other’s pasts affect your relationship today
By creating a safe, neutral, structured space to talk and listen to each other
To make clear next steps so you get more of what you want and less of what you don’t want
Testimonials
C. ‘You help us to talk and hear more than we would.’
What tools do you use?
I use a variety of coaching tools including More To Life processes, The Imago Dialogue, tools from my book such as timelining, Pet Peeve Turnarounds, visioning boards and using art and play.
The Waimapu Stream forms one of the boundaries of our farm
Off-grid Retreats
Sometimes we all need time away to find ourselves again.
We have a special place on our farm where you can go to relax either on a solo retreat or with your partner.
Retreats tailored to your needs
You can add in:
Coaching sessions
Assisted or self-led couple adventures
Creative projects